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[quote=Anonymous]I see both sides of these answers. When I was engaged, I was more than happy to tell anyone and everyone that I was hoping we would have kids sooner than later. When DH was not onboard with more than one, I could have been hurt when his 90yo grandmother would come up to me insisting I should have another, but I genuinely was able to find space to be HONEST and tell her I’d love to, it wasn’t me she needs to convince it is him. (YMMV but he changed his mind and now we have two.) We tried for a 3rd and final, but had multiple miscarriages that we didn’t tell most people about, before a late term loss. Now when people ask if I wanted another child or one of the opposite sex (We have two of the same.) I’m consciously honest and tell them yes. I do wish we did, I was pregnant and lost a baby and then we decided not to keep trying, but I do wish we had been able to have three. If they find that awkward as a response, that’s on them. So there’s my two cents. Ask the questions, speak your truths. Don’t you dare ask questions if you can’t handle complicated answers back. Especially at the dinner table. [/quote]

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