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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I was ghosted by a difficult friend (which it took me a long time to even figure out because I give a lot of grace and assume the best of people . . . someone had to clue me in). It was mysterious, and of course unwarranted . . . I put up with YOU, how dare you reject ME? But obviously if that was the dynamic, what was the point of this friendship to begin with.[/quote] So close... The answer for both PP and OP is "because the relationship dynamic you're complaining about met a need or served a purpose for you", most likely a need to feel like an authority, stronger than someone else, smarter, better-off, charitable, etc. And that's co-dependent behavior, whether the other party is an addict or not. CODA is the right place to explore this.[/quote] Honey it’s this. Read it again if you refuse to understand.[/quote]
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