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[quote=Anonymous]I actually think those concerns are completely legitimate at 1 year into dating. Whether you're 20, 30 or 50. You really don't know someone well enough at that point to know how those things will play out. You may have a sense, but one year is not enough to know. The issue is that some men (and women) are willing to take the plunge regardless, and not stew with anxiety over these decisions. Those type of men are (often) do-ers, take initiative in other aspects, and can make good husbands. So in practice, a lot of the 'good husbands' are the ones that are willing to jump in early. However, a lot of nut jobs also jump in early. And because, as noted above, you have very little idea at 1 year whether this person is a lunatic, then if you want to get married at 1 year, it's basically a coin toss of whether it works out. But you have eliminated the waverers. [/quote]
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