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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Thanks all. I’ll start with asking family for money. I don’t want to worry them. I am aware of how ridiculous this sounds. I’ll also call a local DV center. I do keep meticulous hand notes with dates and I have started hitting the record button when he and I talk. Just to help me feel less crazy when he gaslights me.[/quote] Is your family abusive or untrustworthy? If not, please tell them. I had parents that I could not trust to help me when I was in a bad relationship years ago. I’m working so hard to try to be a parent my child will trust. If your family is trustworthy, TELL THEM. They will want to do all they can to help.[/quote] I agree with this. My aunt and I moved my cousin out into my home over a weekend while her husband was away and filed a tro shortly after. We helped her financially, logistically and emotionally. She’s doing great now and her ex almost never sees his child. If you trust your family and they’re not the kinds of people who will bring more drama, you should think about telling them.[/quote]
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