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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP back! I do appreciate this feedback and I totally hear that my activity planning and playdate stuff might have come off as aggressive or self serving. [b]It really didn’t come from that place (really truly I have a job where I’m available after school and they do not and their kid didn’t get into our district’s aftercare program - I was honestly trying to “be a villager” because I think it’s hard out here for everybody!). But I can see the other side for sure. This why I asked here! [/b]

I would actually be so fine if they all just wanted some space — I see here that I seem controlling or whatever but I like said I’ve always told dd to diversify friendships in case something like this happened. It’s the 180: the ghosting and the meanness (I saw the “Go away [dd]” myself when I was volunteering at an after school event).

And yes for sure I’m having a hard time with it and that’s on me; my daughter is just feeling adrift and, aside from continuing to push her to broaden her experiences and activities and circle, idk what else to do when she’s still holding on to something that I see as dissolved where she either doesn’t see it or doesn’t WANT to see it.

Thanks again, all! [/quote]

I picked up on this from your OP and was one of the early commenters. I think, to be blunt, these parents really suck if you did all of this childcare for them and they are now also ghosting you. I wouldn't convey that message to my kid, obviously, but it says a lot about the family.[/quote]

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