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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You can do this. I left when my kids were the same age. I also called the hotline several times. Do not let the fear of 50-50 custody keep you stuck. You need to do this for yourself and your kids. Get them in therapy too. My kids never spent any time with him after I left and even though the custody evaluator from court recommended 50-50, ex gave up all custody so he could pay zero child support. I know this is not the norm. He does not deserve your presence in your life.[/quote] It is actually quite common for abusive men to abandon their kids when they cannot use them to control the mother (which is their primary interest).[/quote]
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