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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have 3 and love it. But is exhausting. I am 42 with a 11, 9 and 6 year old. I cannot fathom starting over again with a baby. I mean it’s doable but you will be 50 with a 10 year old. I am a decade younger and my 11 year old is giving me gray hair already. [/quote] +2 Im 40 with an 11, a 9, and a 3yo. Delusionally, I still wonder about having a new baby, but realistically I know it would not be a good idea for any of us: physically/mentally/emotionally for me (pregnancy and post-partum are very hard on me), logistically, financially, etc. Hard to see any true upsides, but I can empathize OP. You’re not just saying no to another kid, you’re watching yourself move on from your fertile period. It’s a loss. [/quote]
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