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[quote=Anonymous][quote]DP. She's not mocking their age. She's turned off by how they completely let themselves go. It's true. OP, it used to be a career was all a man had to bring to the table. Men 40+ and even many under 40 [b]still feel entitled[/b] to that low threshold. Remember "King of Queens"? A fat schlubby husband always screwing things up was the cultural equivalent of a total package wife. That's the world they want to live in. Men will do anything to avoid updating their priors. Careful with the ones who actually take care of themselves and keep fit. They're often misogynistic and ultra mad at women. [b]They hate that[/b] they have to make an effort to be competitive on the market. [/quote] Please, as a woman, tell the men on this board how they think and what they feel. The truth is that your hostility toward men is warping your judgment. Let's focus on you, for a moment. Do you receive spousal support (and/or child support)? Are you on the market, bagging on men, while someone else is providing a material share of your income? If so, try giving your exDH most (if not all) of the support back and let him spend it on making himself attractive. Then, let's see how it goes. [/quote]
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