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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]-No, I’m not my husbands AP. My husband was already divorced for years when we met.

And This isn’t the first time that he’s taken a vacation with his ex-wife, he’s done it before. My husband doesn’t allow my son a vacation this year, and I do not know why. He just doesn’t care and says he will be busy, and doesn’t have anytime. OP[/quote]

Do you have a job?  Why does your husband get to decide whether you and your son get to go on vacation?[/quote]

She got pregnant at 18 with a 40 year old’s 4th kid. I would bet my life’s savings she has never had a real job.[/quote]

I understand that. I'm trying to walk her through the reasoning so she realizes she is now a fully-grown adult responsible for both herself and her child's mental health.  She was groomed and manipulated as a young adult (hopefully she was an adult, who knows when they met), but she needs to break out of the mindset of letting this creepy old man hold all the keys.

OP I think you need to understand your family finances.  Something tells me that your DH has it set up so his money goes to his first batch of kids and not you if he dies.  Get a job now, plan an exit.[/quote]

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