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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]On paper, many schools present themselves as supportive of neurodiversity and even encourage the creation of neurodiversity groups within the school community. In practice, though, it can feel very different. If a child’s behavior does not fit neatly with the rest of the school environment, or if their academic performance is not where the school wants it to be, some schools seem much less willing to provide real support. Instead of working with the family and helping the child succeed, they sometimes give the impression that the child would be better off elsewhere, or even directly encourage the family to move the child to another school. Does this happen at your school as well? I find that gap between what schools say publicly and how they sometimes act in reality to be quite hypocritical.[/quote]

You seem confused what mainstream private schools serve. They do not need or are required to accommodate neurodiversity. If your child needs this kind of support, then these type of schools are not the right place for them and honestly wouldn't you want an environment where they are supported and can thrive? There are smaller private schools specifically for these kind of students.

As for a child's behavior fitting neatly, I have found that it doesn't matter if your child is neurodiverse or not, that schools really only want the well behaved, rule following children, especially by middle school. One of my children was constantly getting reprimanded in school for being argumentative, too outspoken and challenging and it was framed as a behavioral issue when all it was literally asking lot of questions, being opinionated and passionate during history class discussions. Teachers just found her irritating because she had opposite opinions but she wasn't getting in "trouble" in the traditional sense. The school would preach "we meet children where they are" and "we welcome all points of view" and "we foster healthy debate" but in reality they just wanted the students to agree with the teacher so the classroom would be easy. I don't even want to think about what would case if she had actual behavioral issues. We saw that at the school (kids throwing things, kids eloping, fights) and those kids were asked to leave. My kid they just constantly give a hard time except for the occasional teacher that really likes her because she "shows sign of being a leader" and is "provocative".  If you feel unsupported leave, I wish we had.[/quote]

You seem to be out of touch with reality. Most kids with ADHD are considered to be part of neurodiversity. Ask other families in your school in their kids were diagnosed with adhd. You will be surprised. [/quote]

My kids are at a parochial school and tons of parents will volunteer that their kid has ADHD and how the school has helped them, but no one will admit to their kid being on the spectrum. It’s very hush hush.[/quote]

Could be true, but at times of exams everyone knows who gets extra time.[/quote]

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