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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would concentrate on house repairs (using their money), organize everything and make sure the house is in decent shape. 
Don’t think about the rest yet. Let them stay there as long as they can, it’s your inheritance after all. Hire some help as needed (the barely up the stairs parent needs to have a bed downstairs). First they’ll probably need grocery delivery and rides, then cleaning and then physical help. 
You are lucky they aren’t somewhere in the boonies at least[/quote]

How would you do this with their money if they refuse to use their money for this? There will be zero inheritance I know. [/quote]

I only read the OP, there was nothing about them refusing to use their money.
If they aren’t letting you manage their finances and make bad decisions and you don’t expect any inheritance I would just distance myself (and I did). 
My parent died in pretty bad conditions but it was her choice, she preferred it to letting her children help her. We still got that very dilapidated house on a cheap market but it wasn’t worth much. I am relieved it’s finally over (it’s been a few years). [/quote]

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