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[quote=Anonymous]OP, you tell your sister that you do not want others to join. You tell her that you envisioned this trip and planned this trip as a special way for you and she to spend sister time together with just the two of you and your spouses. You tell her that maybe another time there can be a group trip but this time there is no way you want to travel with anyone but her and her husband. You tell her all this firmly and uncompromisingly. That gives her ammunition to go back to the others and tell them, “My sister let me know that this is a trip she wanted to spend with just me, as sisters, and it means a lot to her that we do this. So maybe next time we can do a bigger group trip somewhere, but it’s not going to work out for Japan this time.” You be firm, which will let her be firm. Do not expand the group AT ALL. These other people are friggin’ PUSHY! [/quote]
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