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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You're suffocating the boyfriend. Just know that.

Also, be careful as you're committing adultery. In Virginia, that could come back to bite you in the ass in the financial settlement with your STBX if he finds out. [/quote]
I’m trying not to suffocate him - that’s why I even met with another man as a distraction. When he told me yesterday that he wasn’t feeling well, took a nap and is going to bed after dinner again and “maybe let’s get together tomorrow”, I said: “Hope you feel well tomorrow” with a kissing emoji and didn’t share anything else that I’m sharing here. [/quote]

Oh no, you realize that's worse, right?

He said he was sick so you met up with another guy?  And you say he's your boyfriend and you're exclusive.

I mean it comes across as punitive behavior.  Not good.[/quote]
I haven’t seen another guy for 2 weeks, he texted me yesterday but I don’t want to meet with him now. I want to give my relationship with my boyfriend a better chance to develop into something meaningful, if possible.

To the other posters, this is all real. I only wanted to know the specifics as to what you think I should address in therapy. I’m not sure if this is anxiety because I don’t worry that he is seeing someone else in the meantime, I just physically miss him a lot. [/quote]

Wait, just so I understand ...

You're "exclusive" with a "boyfriend" you've been seeing for two months. Yet, two weeks ago you were seeing another man.

Do I have that right? [/quote]

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