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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here, OK, I guess I’ll let it go. I don’t understand what would be so disruptive about guests they invited. But I guess it would have been unexpected. That being said, yes, we did enter with the code we were given. I mean, we were given the code in case we arrived before DS![/quote]

You are insufferable. Look, if you arrive even 30 mins before expected time, you drive around until expected time. DO NOT let yourself in until after said time. This poor woman left work early to get ready and had to flee her own home. This won’t be forgotten. You just made a lot of trouble for yourselves. 
How to fix? Apologize, leave early Sunday morning, send them on a weekend away sometime with paid with free childcare. [/quote]

Exactly. One likely scenario - she came home to tidy up herself and the house quickly, and was under a time pressure to do it (because she was leaving work early. Something tells me the OP didn't work outside the home). She was probably wrestling with whether she should or not, but reasoned if she was very quick, she could get it done - dash in, run up the stairs, shower, etc. But instead she had the choice to NOT have time to do that because she would be rude not greeting you, offering you drinks, etc., even very quickly as she explained she had to run (but you are people who arrive 2 hours early from a 3 hour drive, so you probably don't get that some people don't have all the time in the world) - or turning around. So she turned around.

OP, do you get it?[/quote]

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