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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Not really clear what you are trying to say, but I'll bite.

I divorced my xH because he didn't pull his weight. We have 50/50 custody and it's SO much less work for me. He has a court order to do half the school pickups/dropoffs, half the sick days, etc. Even bigger, I no longer have to cook for or clean up after a grown man. People really have no idea how much FOOD adult men need to be fed, or how their crap gets absolutely everywhere.

Even if he bailed completely, he'd have to pay child support AND I still wouldn't have to cook and clean for him.

I also think a LOT of men step it up when they realize their parenting will be examined in a court room by a judge. It's one thing at home behind closed doors, but another to know it could be brought out in front of complete strangers to judge. [/quote]

Sounds like you should stay single and not have boys as teens can eat too.  It’s too bad you hate men.  [/quote]

I don’t hate all men! I’m quite fond of my current BF.

If I had a teenage boy (I have all DDs), I would have the same expectations as I would teenage daughters AND husbands. You contribute to the household and help with cooking, cleaning up after dinner, setting the table, etc. I absolutely would resent a teenage boy who behaved like my xH, which was to come home, park his butt on the couch, and sit there on a screen until dinner was ready. Gobble it down then get back to the couch.

Its not about eating massive amount of food. It’s about expecting somebody else to buy the food, prepare the food, and clean up after you’ve eaten the food. Cooking for just myself has automatically cut down on my food expenses and time spent cooking by over half. [/quote]

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