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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m going to offer a different perspective. I am a female, but I do think that men should have equal say and whether or not more children are brought into the family. I do realize that it’s mentally taxing and physically taxing on women. My pregnancies were absolutely horrible, I was hospitalized. I had diabetes. I was on bedrest I had preeclampsia, etc., and even some postpartum anxiety after my first.  That being said, I will never regret my choice to have three children. I didn’t find three to be harder than two, and in some ways it was easier. Going into my second and third pregnancies after having postpartum depression, made me expect it, but also take steps to contain it. Things were much better when I was aware that it could potentially come. 
I don’t think you should definitely have another baby if you don’t want one, but I do think that he should have a say too. 
Unless you work. If you work and are doing all the childcare, then I would reconsider anything I just said.[/quote]

Kids should be an enthusiastic two yes situation.  His equal say is equal in that both should have absolute veto power.[/quote]

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