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[quote=Anonymous]We were full-pay upper-six-figures people at a 2T middle school and felt *very* looked down upon - our kid (who had some experience with snobby rich kids from her previous school) was made to feel inferior by a bunch of her classmates and we ourselves felt like we were getting glared at on parents' night. Decidedly not worth it.

In retrospect, I think that if you're in my income bracket you should eschew any possibility of private until high school. Public middle schools are totally fine academically if you're in a good district - they'll learn all the math they need, and while they'll get a little less writing practice than a private school kid might, it won't take long to catch up in 9th grade, and at any rate the gap there is shrinking with the class size law giving teachers more time to grade writing assignments. And socially, it's a LOT easier on your kid to go to a relatively relaxed public middle school than to attend a private school during the 3 years when kids are at their absolute most awful.

Plus, frankly, it's a much easier transition for a public 8th grader to switch to private in 9th than it is for a private 8th grader to switch to public to attend a SHSAT school or LaGuardia, so you keep more options open that way. There are exactly zero private schools that can match up with what LAG offers for a talented arts kid, and only a handful of them can match up with Stuy/BxSci/HSMSE in STEM, so the best path forward for your kid could easily run through a public school.[/quote]

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