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[quote=Anonymous]I wouldn’t extrapolate this into intention on his part more like “scope creep.” But I would hold firm boundaries. So next time say ‘sorry the baby is fussy today and I’ve got my hands full’ -you’ll just have to get it out next week. But the 2/3 income comment is worrisome, op. Examine your resentment carefully. See where it comes from and try to get to the root of it. Because it can grow into a very toxic thing. Maybe that means telling him that you want to step back at work and not be primary breadwinner for the next ten years or so and what lifestyle changes would that mean for you guys? I went half time when my second was born and it’s the best decision I made even though it meant a more modest house for us. Good luck.[/quote]
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