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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Can you just better describe your personality on the dating profile, emphasizing your depth, independence, etc.? When you start talking with them on the app, share more information about yourself, to ensure that they understand who you are and what to expect? That would save you and them from potential disappointment and attract the right type of men - could be another immigrant who’s been through a lot and understands and appreciates you. [/quote]

This is good advice.

As for examples of my intensity:

- I am always scanning for danger and trouble. Constantly vigilant. Checking bank accounts, assessing my life etc
- I’m goal driven. I can’t chill or relax. What’s next? How do I get the next promotion? How can I optimize my week so I can ensure I’m getting 3 workouts a day? How do I eat 5 fruits and veggies a day. How much money do I need to retire? 
- reading literature and then reading critical analysis and conducting research to get to the tooth of it.

I am not just a chill cool girl who relaxes and is full of jokes and a lightness. [/quote]
You're a planner. I am too.
Plan time for lightness and fun. Actually carve out an appointment in your day to lie still, look at the light through the window, do crosswords, watch a funny cat video. Take up a hobby or activity that gets you out of the house and makes you stop thinking, and gets you talking to other people and out of your head. You need to plan time for fun and time to stop thinking. Guess what? You can do that. It's a strength to plan so use it to your advantage. It may take a while before you can do it for very long and consistently but start with 15 minutes. [/quote]

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