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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Screen a guy who is fun and light himself and needs a serious, responsible woman to temper him. So in general, avoid men in stuffy professions like medicine, engineering, certain areas of law.

Also find a new father figure for your siblings. I know it sounds cold, but the American way is to leave those children in the hands of their actual parent(s) so you can strike out on your own. You can help, but they aren’t your responsibility. [/quote]

OP,

Do not do this. Your marriage will suck. You are a type A who needs a type A. Some of it is anxiety, but it will be so much worse if you marry a light and fun man. Men have more fragile egos than women, and a man will quickly get defensive if you are doing better than him financially AND bossing him around.

My aunt who is like you is married to a lawyer, and it works. They are both recent immigrants so while he is sometimes frustrated with her, he understands and loves her because her personality has being advantageous in their career and personal goals. She is also aware that she has an anxiety disorder and she is getting treatment, and she is getting more relaxed with age.[/quote]

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