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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Can you just better describe your personality on the dating profile, emphasizing your depth, independence, etc.? When you start talking with them on the app, share more information about yourself, to ensure that they understand who you are and what to expect? That would save you and them from potential disappointment and attract the right type of men - could be another immigrant who’s been through a lot and understands and appreciates you. [/quote]

This is good advice.

As for examples of my intensity:

- I am always scanning for danger and trouble. Constantly vigilant. Checking bank accounts, assessing my life etc
- I’m goal driven. I can’t chill or relax. What’s next? How do I get the next promotion? How can I optimize my week so I can ensure I’m getting [b]3 workouts a day[/b]? How do I eat 5 fruits and veggies a day. How much money do I need to retire? 
- reading literature and then reading critical analysis and conducting research to get to the tooth of it.

I am not just a chill cool girl who relaxes and is full of jokes and a lightness. [/quote]
I hope this is a typo! 
Some men really like a driven type A woman, you just have to find the one who isn't looking for a new mommy that you have to do everything for. [/quote]

Op here. I meant 3 workouts a day.

My mind is always a never ending to do list. Always on to the next. What’s not done? What issue or problem am I not foreseeing and preparing for etc? I’m always bracing for impact. [/quote]

Working out three times a day is not normal. I responded before (I'm the immigrant) and I think you should do therapy and probably meds to manage your anxiety. I mean this in the most non-snarky way possible. You need to take care of your health before you even think about dating.[/quote]

Op here. Gosh, I meant to type 3 workouts a week! [/quote]

OK, huge difference  :D  :D

I still think you could benefit from therapy and some anxiety meds. I know I did. [/quote]

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