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[quote=Anonymous]There are multiple issues there. First, most people are very out of shape at 50. If he is this in shape, for whatever reason, it is a good thing, and that sets a positive example for your sons. The toxic body obsession (modeled by extremists like this Clavicular guy for example) is a separate conversation. Mere vanity does not = body obsession. And focusing on health does not = vanity. All of this is a conversation your family can (and probably should) be having. You say you are concerned he resents you not being in this “craze” with him — but is this really about him resenting your weight/level of fitness? Or, you resenting how you do not have the same level of fitness and feeling insecure and projecting that by calling him a “freak” in a “craze”? [/quote]
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