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[quote=Anonymous]It is great that you sought therapy, and that it helped you escape an unhealthy relationship. I think you need your dream to mature. It sounds like the voice of a little girl, who envisioned a problem free adulthood. No child with autism, no loveless marriage , no bankruptcy or job that you keep just because it pays the bills. I hope that as you start dating, you are not still over-romanticizing real life. Your sister made different choices, but does not have a perfect life. You have to let go thinking that exists. (And maybe examine why your version of love begrudges her joy/success?) Look at YOUR options , understand that no white knight is going to fix your future. Just continue therapy. Appreciate that you and those you love are healthy. You have career options. You are not chained to someone who is mentally ill man by virtue of having had children with him. You have a very bright future ahead of you if you can readjust your mindset. [/quote]
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