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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Oh please. Everyone has eyes and encounters attractive people from time to time. [/quote]

Encountering an attractive person isn't the same as spinning a narrative fantasy in your head about said person. You can see pretty people/things without wanting to fsck them, right?

Directing your sexuality outside of the bounds of your relationship is problematic for most people in monogamous relationships. The real test is easy: Did you tell your spouse the whole truth of it? Or are you hiding it from your partner? If the former, you're fine. The latter, you're cheating.[/quote]

You’re speaking about an EA or emotional affair. There’s a gray area here. It’s not all black and white. Spouses can know the crush and truth and not be bothered by fantasy. The depth of the fantasy is more problematic. telling a spouse doesn’t always relieve anything at all [/quote]

Nah, it's pretty straightforward. You're just splitting hairs to justify your bad behavior.[/quote]

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