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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He’s crazy. And he’s got you doubting yourself. He can pound sand if he’s not communicating with you about the kids or engaging with you about making any kind of routine.

You might want to add his name again to the emergency contacts but absolutely let the school know that he may not be reliable because he doesn’t keep in touch with you. Suggest that [whoever your replacements were] may be a better backup and ask them to note this info for future use.

Or, better yet, ask your lawyer how to handle it. And if you don’t already have a lawyer, get one TOMORROW. And document document document what your DH has done and is doing. Get as much as you can in email and text messages with him. Recap your phone conversations in follow-up emails to him. Keep track of dates, words, actions.

From what you describe, my mind went to him having some kind of mental health situation. Good luck with it all. [/quote]

I would not do anything at all wrt the school - that is interfering with  legal custody issue and could come back and bite you. I would restore the emergency contacts the way they were and at most add another person to them. Schools never call dads anyway and they will just go down the list. [/quote]

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