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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is a him problem and you are not required to help him solve it. Document when your kids are dropped off late and marked tardy and when he asks you to do pickup make it clear you don’t plan to trade nights— you do pickup, he’s not doing 50%, CS will have to be adjusted. If you solve this for him it will be at your expense.[/quote] This. You’re not his wife anymore. He says he will “figure it out”, so let him do that. If he does not and you end up with the kids for more than your 50 percent, document that and you will have to get the custody agreement and child support modification done in court. And yes document everything. [/quote] Or, she could be decent and work with him. If she will not, then it speaks volumes of her. He should go back and get the order modified to have the kids in school near him as they are with him three school days a week and have her share child care costs as depending on the state it is included in child support calculations. [/quote] Work with him how, exactly? She isn’t his nanny. If he can’t make the custody schedule work he needs to propose one that does. Forcing the kids to move schools because he was too selfish to find a place to live closer by was his decision. [/quote]
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