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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The first poster is ridiculous.  
If you say, “not tonight, tomorrow,” then that should be the end of the discussion.  If he keeps bringing it up, then he is being a jerk, and you should be allowed to call him out on it without repercussions.

I mean, I would expect this from my six year old if I told him that we couldn’t get ice cream tonight, but we will tomorrow.  [/quote]

OP conveniently does not tell us exactly what happened between her saying “not tonight, tomorrow,” and calling him and entitled jerk.  People who escalate like this usually feed each other that energy.[/quote]

She said that “he didn’t take it well.”

What are you thinking happened, pp?  I really can’t imagine any acceptable scenario other than him dropping it and letting her go to sleep.  [/quote]

I imagine he was grumbling, or maybe said something to himself.  She doesn’t say exactly what he says.

But I’m saying that in a toxic relationship, which I have been in, none of these types of incidents happen in isolation.  There’s a pattern and there’s stuff that happens earlier in the day and there’s a whole toxic dynamic that needs both people.  From the way op describes it I think she is not disclosing the whole story.

Like this isn’t the first time she’s called him an entitled jerk and this isn’t the first time he’s called her an f-ing B and there’s still sex happening between them.[/quote]

All that toxic tension makes the sex hotter when it actually does happen.[/quote]

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