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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sounds like you never really loved him and married him to get the kids you wanted. You chose to bring kids into a sham marriage that you already knew had issues just to get what you wanted from it. I don't know if he knew you were just using him to get kids or not? If you both made that decision openly, then you are both at fault for poor decision making.

Anyways, hopefully you both move on and can parent amicably and don't bring a revolving door of new partners through your kids lives. [/quote]

Wow, you are making so many assumptions here. People don’t just marry to have kids and then plan for divorce. How do you know it’s a sham marriage? If it was OP wouldn’t have the sense of relief she is feeling and wouldn’t have stayed as long as she did. [/quote]

Not assumptions. OP says this in her first paragraph "The marriage has been strained from the get go. I was terrified to leave, and I refused to do it before kids as I was not risking not having kids."[/quote]

So often people don’t realize how terrible their spouse is until after they have children.

He was always him. You wanted a baby and refused to see this. [/quote]

This! [/quote]

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