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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DW puts the kids first before me.  That's why I'm a sex starved DH who has resentment issues.[/quote]

This a bit of a non sequitor.  Putting kids first does not = husband gets ignored.  In my house it means that the husband may need to wait a little bit if child has a pressing need and we have a great marriage.  What, your kids never sleep!?   This is not about your kids something else is going on with your wife.[/quote]

In a balanced relationship, it shouldn't; but it can happen if a wife uniformly puts being a mother ahead of being a wife. If a wife is constantly exhausted because she loves her kids so much she will spare them nothing, it can lead to her not saving any energy for sex with her husband. [/quote]

I think the more likely scenario is that wife does not WANT to have sex with you so she finds something else to fill her time.  Like I said, there is something else going on with your wife.  You need to talk to her.[/quote]

True. If she has the opportunity to go do something she regards as fun, she's not "too tired" then. Probably too much beta behavior on the part of the husband. Being dutiful, diligent and supportive is appreciated but doesn't exactly cause a stirring in the loins.

Now, if she was *never* that into you but went ahead and had a baby with you anyway, she probably has some explaining to do.  [/quote]

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