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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You're too in the weeds. He's too hands-off. You probably got like this because you both react to each other.

My husband is like yours, and instead of stressing myself out to correct every little thing, I let a ton of stuff slide. I have to. I would drive myself crazy trying to rush around living both our lives. So we muddle through, and we try to focus on the actually important things.

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+1.

OP, a lot of this would also drive me crazy too.

On the car - if it's driveable and he's the primary driver of the car then leave it up to him to do anything.

On the cleaning - hire housecleaners. Tell him the choice is the cost or you make a chore chart and he agrees to follow it.

On activities for the kids - just do them and let him gripe. My husband refuses to acknowledge that the house occasionally needs preventive maintenance or actual maintenance. I'm not going argue that the driveway is crumbling and needs to be re-surfaced. I'm just going to have the people come and do it.[/quote]

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