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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Have been married for 20 years. DH has no ability to interact with me like I am a person. I walk in a room trying to grab stuff for the kids in a hurry and he says stuff like "how about you help me while your on your knees" ; or if I say we have to pay for something like a house repair he will ask me what I am going to do to earn the money. It's stuff like that non-stop. While are son's are close by, while I am cooking. It is so old. I have told him to stop a million times and he says that I am the problem. I just don't want to be treated like a piece of meat all the time. We have so much tension between us that we barely speak, but when we do he launches right back into these comments.[b] We both work[/b], but he makes way more than me and seems to think that means he is more important.[/quote] Contempt. Marriage killer. Sounds like maybe you don't work and he resents being the soul breadwinner. Forgive me if I have that wrong. But it's a common dynamic.[/quote] Reading is fundamental [/quote]
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