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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It can be fine but you do need to be careful as a friend of the opposite sex can slowly turn into more if there is an attraction.  As a female jogger whose husband does not run I wanted to find a group to run with.  I did and over the course of a few years I developed a close friendship with one of the guys and I did not even realize it had happened.  Our group would have a year end running party at a bar and I found myself telling my husband no spouses were going.  So he didnt go and looking back on it now I should have not gone either.   After a few drinks he and I were eye to eye in what I would call an intimate discussion.   He made me laugh and at the end of the night we ended up kissing.  Turned out he had the same feelings and I guess I should have known that.   We had a fling and neither spouse found out about it initially.   After a few years we each decided we better call it off.  And now I feel awful but had I listened to some of the PP cooments above on be careful and aware, I think my head would have told me to cut it off before it began.   So you just need to be careful and aware if it gets flirty!   I did not do that.   My husband found out eventually and we worked through it but I feel bad for not being truthful with him about it.  And my friend?  He never told his wife.  [/quote]

The same thing happened in my running group.  One of the runners slept with a man; his wife found out, and they moved to Europe for a job opportunity, saving their marriage (don't know if they are happy, but 10 years later, they are still married).  The same woman then slept with another married man in our running group, and it blew up both of their marriages.  
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100% agree.[/quote]

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