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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Probably a VERY contentious mediation or divorce and your location was exactly in the middle mileage wise. [/quote] If that were the case they’d be mandated to do it in a safe, supervised location. It’s also unlikely to be high conflict given the sharing of supplies. Little kids like their own special things. They are attached to their car seats, even the weird spot on the arm that got scrubbed and now has a different texture. They know the difference between two “identical” seats. High conflict tend to end up not sharing bags and possessions because of conflict over lost and damaged items, fears of something being planted in the bags, etc. The fact that they are exchanging possessions with the child and the exchanges are happening without drama point to low conflict. It’s a public road and OP has no right to interfere with this family. There are many reasons why they may have chosen this spot, some of which have already been explained. People really need to calm down.[/quote] A divorce can be contentious, with neither parent being abusive or unsafe. I can absolutely imagine an arrangement where an address was set in mediation, or by the court, maybe it was one parent's home, or a grandparent, or a childcare provider, and then when it stopped making sense, because one parent moved or stopped using that childcare provider, the other parent insisted on keeping it there just to be obnoxious. I have also seen contentious divorces where the parent who pays child support insists that their child support should cover everything, and refuses to buy basics like clothes, or carseats, etc . . . for their house. [/quote]
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