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[quote=Anonymous]Is she older than you, OP? It seems like you are not seeing her particular valuable or that you would be at a loss if the relationship doesn't work out. You feel you can date around when your kids are out of the nest. She is already on that stage of life and needs someone who can take responsibility for future retirement together. This entails merging households, at least partially.

I personally avoid dating men who say they would never marry. First, there is a prenup to regulate financial aspects. Divorce doesn't need to be expensive or difficult. If you believe that she's a good reasonable person you shouldn't be so worried that she can make divorce a living hell even with well negotiated prenup. 
Second, men are usually the older party in relationship and I wouldn't be interested in playing house/wife without having at least some legal protections long term. Aging men are not exactly fun: who would want to take on this load and just be kicked out once he dies?

But I would prefer to date and live together for at least 7 years before marriage at this age.

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