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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m in the process of divorcing a mentally ill DH who discontinued his medication and checked out of our lives.

Please don’t assume he’s going to say “sure, your idea sounds great.” When I asked mine to return to medical treatment, he freaked out and secretly filed for divorce and I didn’t find out until I was served. He filed for more than 50/50 and became incredibly hostile. It is a truly terrifying process. Beforehand, I could have imagined that maybe we could live parallel lives and he could just do his thing in a separate household. That was naive.

You need to talk to a few attorneys. I mean it. You’re in a volatile situation that could blow up at any moment and you need to get information about your situation and your jurisdiction to protect you and your kids. Gather all of your logins, financial documentation, and emails/texts with him as well. Switch all of your communication to writing when possible. Change your passwords and switch to two-factor authentication. If you have access to any medical records or doctor names or records of his appointments, make copies and put them somewhere safe right this second.

And I’m sorry to even scare you with this, but you need to check recording laws in your state. If it is a two-party consent state, assume that you are being recording and being intentionally baited when you talk to him. Ask me how I know. [/quote]

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