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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Weird that you are posting this here seemingly as validation that you are right. This doesn’t sound like a man “lying,” it sounds like someone trying not to get dunked on by his own family. He burned dinner. That’s not a character flaw. When the response is a group stare-down and commentary from everyone at the table, people get defensive and dig in. The real issue isn’t the breadcrumbs, it’s a family dynamic where one mistake turns into a referendum on competence, and then a wife who races to DCUM. [/quote] Welll … there is a tiny bit of truth to that in that there is likely a deeply grooved pattern of these interactions. But the issue is that sometimes these guys literally do fail, over and over. While burning dinner once is not a character flaw, burning it every time is a problem that has to be addressed. When someone consistently fails at adulting it is very hard to avoid the pattern. [/quote]
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