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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So, how does it work? You are there with your hubs and if your hubs wanted to bang a hot one, how does he approach and have sex with her? Likewise if some man wanted you? Two scenarios: (1) the approaching party and the approached are mutually interested and (2) if one is interested and the other is not or not fully interested.[/quote]

I honestly don't know. That's more like the 201 level class and we're still at the 101 level class.

What I can say is that we are pretty good at pointing out people that we find attractive to the other (spent the last year working on vocalizing fantasies), so Hubs has an idea of what I would like and vice versa. If I see someone topless with great boobs, I will point his eyes in her direction. If it was a couple, we would need to both have some attraction to 'engage in activities' AKA play with them. We're really new to this, so I can't imagine that either of us is ready to just venture out on our own anytime soon. At least one of the couples we chatted with was interested in us, but we weren't ready, and they knew we were newbies, so it didn't even come up. They told us that most times they go to a club like this, they just play together, and don't hook up with anyone else. It's mostly the sexy vibe and lack of inhibitions in public that make me excited at this point. [/quote]

The odds are pretty low then, if husband-wife pair A has to be mutually interested in husband-wife pair B. Can husband A play with wife C while wife A plays with husband B? That would leave husband C and wife B watching. Anyway, my wife would never be game for this, so for me it is a fantasy that I will take to my grave. Still, very interesting lifestyle.[/quote]

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