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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Another woman here in the same boat, but cannot imagine dating as the solution to the complete unwanted upheaval of my life.

I’ve searched for an explanation for why he did this, and have nothing. Apparently it is a thing. Over the past few months I’ve been quietly introduced to sisters and friends-of-friends and acquaintances in the same boat. There’s a lot of questioning (is he cheating on you? What did you do?!) that pushes us into silence, which makes it even more isolating. [b]It’s also quite rare for the man to be the one to leave in a marriage of college-educated equals[/b], which compounds the judgement.

You’re not alone.[/quote]

Really? That's not true in our circle.
A whole lot of honestly spoiled, selfish, white collar navel-gazing middle aged men .[/quote]

Same.

Lots of overeducated narc “men” with. Wife and children and money decide “they deserve more” doting and less nagging to do kid or property stuff.

So they take the passive aggressive approach : act like a-holes until the wife can’t take it anymore and she files for divorce.

Right until the end he opts out of all adult responsibilities.

So yes, he left the family and marriage first, but didn’t want to memorialize that by filing for divorce. Thats woman’s work. Plus then he can play the victim to his mother and anyone who will listen to his BS.[/quote]

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