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[quote=Anonymous]I agree with the PP's to support, validate, and let you DD know that you won't stop her from completing transfer applications if she choses to do so. But don't enable her. Part of unhappiness in these moments can be the feeling that you're trapped with your situation. If she knows that she has agency to change her situation, she may decide to go through the work of completing transfer apps and end up making the choice to change schools. Or she may start that process, decide that it's a lot of work, and then decide to redouble her efforts on forming social connections in her current school. This, as many have said previously, takes time and changes often from one semester to the next. Do not roll out the red carpet to other schools and a bunch of parent help with transfer steps though. She can figure it out, and her action or inaction in this direction should be something she owns.[/quote]
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