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[quote=Anonymous]I mean, if we all had to disclose *everything* about ourselves that could potentially lead to someone being unhappy in OLD, that’s literally all our profile would be. Just a long list of every flaw we have. Yours, too, OP.

The problem is that people go into OLD expecting immediate gratification. They want to find the perfect person NOW. And they move far too quickly and get attached way too fast, which leads to future casting before you’ve even learned who the person really is.

When dating is supposed to be meeting a wide variety of people, taking it slow, and ending things when it turns out you’re not a match.

If you’re worried about SSRIs impacting sex drive, no problem. You should be having conversations about sex with the people you are having sex with or plan to have sex with. If you can come up with a solution together, great. If not, you realize you’re not a good match and move on.

FWIW I’ve dated 2 men with ED. One refused to do anything about it and told me I should just be grateful that he’ll never cheat on me bc he can’t. I ended things. The other worked with me to find solutions so I could be sexually satisfied and was so good at oral I really didn’t care. We stayed together. [/quote]

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