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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I say this kindly and with good intent ... it sounds like you have some hang-ups about sex. You feeling like a piece of meat is YOUR feeling, based on some complex feelings that you have about the act. You are projecting your feelings onto what you assume he is thinking. Even your use of term "piece of meat" shows that you have some negative association with being desired. I think you need to explore why his desire makes you feel cheap. It might not be him, it might be something in you.[/quote] Agree with this. I've been married for 15 years and have a really nice husband, and he also goes into a different state of mind during sex. I would never frame it as being a "piece of meat." It's a good thing. For men, the physical act of sex is very tied up with love. [/quote]
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