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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A five page letter of grievances sounds excessive, to be honest. Maybe they abused you, but it sounds more like you are a bit of a delicate flower. [/quote]

5 pages was sent because I thought if they kept saying they "have no idea" or "well, you must hate us", maybe they deserved to know, so let me open up and explain to them calmly why I felt so unimportant.  It was written with great care, with lots of loving expressions.  A letter I thought for sure would "clear any misunderstanding", and lead to greater relationship.  No, the letter was not sent to lash out, or for revenge, or attention, it was meant for reconciliation.  I also thought for sure they would get it this time, because I meant 100% well.  Well, I was wrong.  So stupid. [/quote]

You should have edited it and used bullet points. Otherwise it was probably a lot of hot air and had them rolling their eyes. [/quote]

Even so, loving parents would have responded with more than "well you must really hate us."  Any grownup I have ever heard use that phrase was the emotional equivalent of a toddler.   It's not a reasonable response to any serious conversation.[/quote]

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