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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’ll never forget my extraordinarily critical, negative boss (who I mostly liked because she replicated my high -functioning, completely dysfunctional family environment perfectly) being mad about a slide they showed in her remedial management class the same week as a thing that upset her at work. There were quadrants in the class that showed a survey of managers who were: Competent/Well liked Competent/Disliked Incompetent/Well liked Incompetent//Disliked She found it astonishing that anyone would choose an incompetent but kind boss over a competent but harsh one, despite the vast majority of employees voting that way. The upsetting work thing for my boss was that a colleague she revered had been demoted for slapping a subordinate (I am not making this up.) When she was ranting about the injustice done to her abusive colleague by some useless peon, I reminded her about the survey. She turned red and stomped away. She did moderate her behavior thereafter.[/quote] Meh. I work with a lot of competent, but disliked people (yay lawyers!). I would work for anyone but someone who is incompetent. I can’t stand stupidity and I won’t work for an idiot. I’m not a toddler and I don’t need people to be kind to me. That being said, I go out of my way to support my employees. I’m not sure if they like me, but I am kind and competent. [/quote] Yeah. I have had these situations. I had a manager who was in way over his head. Great person, but really didn't do his team any favors as a manager in terms of managing our corporate team - I was at a manufacturing satellite facility. Meanwhile, at the same facility, we had a manager who was a real PITA, but was that way with everyone, including corporate. He did a good job of keeping them at bay which allowed us to get our work done. For this overall, I try to treat folks fairly. When possible, explain the why certain changes are being implemented, not just the change. Gather feedback and incorporate it when possible as well. I work in an engineering role at a manufacturing facility and work daily with the production team. Getting them on your side goes a long way in being able to get stuff done. [/quote] If you’re a manager you cannot be scared to be a PITA sometimes. It just does not work. [/quote]
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