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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is OP: to clarify, this is a new issue for me, one I’ve had since moving to a large town/small city in Appalachia nearly five Years ago. I’m from DC originally and have lived in several other US states, and Europe, and never had this issue before.  I’m outgoing and friendly and normally (historically) had no issue finding a few people to pal around with.  I just feel locked out - certainly don’t feel welcome - in this social scene, and it feels difficult even to form 1:1 friendships.

I work full-time and have three kids, so I understand the reality of having limited time to socialize.  I just wish it didn’t feel so difficult.  I wish you could just chat with people and easily transition to grabbing a coffee or going for a walk.  Covid must have had something to do with this.  I don’t know.

[b]I held a Christmas party a few weeks ago and had a great turnout: everyone seemed to have a good time.  However, no one has reached out since to get together otherwise.  [/b]

Oh well.[/quote]

OP, I’ve just learned that I will always need to organize 95% of my social interactions. It’s fine. I don’t need reciprocity. I just need connection.[/quote]

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