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[quote=Anonymous]sorry OP this is tough. My DD is at vandy and although the school feels they approach rush more thoughtfully (rush after xmas not right out of gate in august), there will always be a population of mean girls jockeying and landing the “top” tier houses. And they create this perception of tiering to validate their status in the world. The reality is that most of these girls are awful and the infighting and catty behavior worsens over time according to my DD - long winded way of saying what seems like the top choice frosh year rarely is the right choice for nice well-rounded friendly girls, and as others say the lower tier (horrible term btw) houses are usually wonderful for developing true friendships. But so many of these girls feel the pain frosh year, the first time they’ve truly ever been rejected - and breaks my heart when they wind up transferring (a number of dd’s friends did after rush). Anyway best of luck, it does get better is she hangs in there [/quote]
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