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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]I’m 77 and my body is starting to really decline. I have osteopenia and a heart condition and have to take a lot more medications now.[/b] I’ve been mostly healthy all my life and this year the various ailments and things going wrong have really started to ramp up. I was telling my daughter yesterday that she should visit more (we usually see each other for a week or so during the summer, another week during her birthday, a week during Thanksgiving, and then a week during Christmas and then a long time until our next visit in the spring). I just don’t like going 5-6 months without a visit at my age. She says instead that I should get out of this mindset and “just walk more and eat healthier” and I’ll live longer. It’s true, I never really exercised much in the last 30 years, but that’s not going to change anything in my late 70s. I don’t think she grasps how few years I may have left. I feel much more tired than I did even a few years ago and I can’t handle more than one activity in a day. I’m grateful to have made it this far in good health but I just feel I don’t have too much left in me. When you get to this age, you understand. I don’t think she understands, “just be healthier and live longer” doesn’t work that way. [/quote]

Aging is a part of life. You love your daughter and your time may be near. There is no magic answer. Lots of folks experience loneliness toward the end of their life.

You need a friend to speak with each day & you need a bit of fresh air everyday. There should be church groups that have get togethers for seniors.

May the Lord bless you.[/quote]

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