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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wow 4 full weeks a year, that's a lot. Would you rather have shorter visits? Because she doesn't have unlimited vacation time, right?[/quote] This is the issue. A lot of people cannot take too much time off, especially if they have children and a spouse who also has aging parents who live far away. If you want to see your DD more, you need to move closer to her. We are in our 50s/60, and our parents live very far from us, so we don't see them that often. Most of my siblings moved far away from our parents, except for one. She moved like 15 miles away, and our parents moved with them to be closer. They now live in the same condo complex, and it's made things so much easier for everyone. I absolutely know that one's health deteriorates rapidly in old age, but I also know that it's not that easy to take time off to visit aging parents.[/quote] Its not any burden to you at all so saying it makes it easier for everyone is silly when you dumped all the care on your sibling.[/quote] This. [/quote]
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