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[quote=Anonymous]OP here. To respond to various comments: We've been married 25 years, so don't think you can say is "destroying" our marriage. As for "business arrangement vs. marriage," we see lots of differences on DCUm as to what a "marriage" is (see current relationship thread on open marriage). As for what he is doing with the rest of the money, saving it. He is not untransparent, and I don't mistrust that he has a secret boat or anything. I can ignore those who don't think I can do the math, but it is helpful for those with a 2x or 5x differential to chime in, because it is the same concept. All told, though, I did ask for input so appreciate the various thoughts. I'm ready to talk to DH about a shift. [/quote]
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