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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why did you marry and reproduce with an a$$hole?!

I can’t imagine DH doing this and all the friends I’ve known to divorce have amicable divorces and remain “friends” with their ex.  Most end up better for the kids.  You are at least half responsible for your trauma.[/quote]

Not OP and WTF? The very definition of an abuser is that they can put on a nice face to anyone they want to, at any time.

That includes the person they marry for as long as it takes to reel them in.

And the abuse is calculated to break you down and get progressively worse, so at each stage you really have a very hard time noting it or fighting it. Gaslighting and DARVO (deny, attack, reverse victim and offender) keep the actual victim guessing and confused.

It's literally best compared to the psychological (and unfortunately sometimes physical, but the psychological is worse in all cases) torture prisoners of war undergo.

And you're blaming OP?!?

The only person responsible for abuse is an abuser.[/quote]

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