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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Being honest, a guy who has gone six years without it would no longer know what he's doing (if he ever did).  Also, why is he so undesirable that he couldn't find any women willing to sleep with him?
Are you willing to endure multiple awkward and o-free sessions while he's on training wheels?
I wouldn't.  But if that's your thing...[/quote]

Oh, good lord. Women aren't that complicated. Needing a "trained man" to get you off is a skill issue on the part of the woman. Grown women can use their words and ask for what they want/need in bed just fine, we don't need to wait for the right man to show us how our bodies work.

What regressive mess is this?[/quote]

I'm glad there's women like you out there willing to do the educating and give the guy the skill and experience he needs. Me? I'm not that patient.   A guy who doesn't know what he's doing is an instant turn-off. To each her own.[/quote]

The expectation in your comment is that all women are the same, so a man either knows "what he's doing" or not. The pp who started this mess alleged that this knowledge isn't like riding an (actual) bike; "a guy who has gone six years without it would no longer know what he's doing". I disagree with both of these positions.

Yes, I'm completely willing to communicate my likes and dislikes with my partner, which is probably why I've never had bad sex. It doesn't require "patience", just a simple conversation, which is a playful part of foreplay, not a chore. Laying back like a pillow princess and expecting a new partner to just know what you like is an option, but it seems like a quick road to dissatisfaction to me. [/quote]

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